Thursday, August 29, 2013

Thursday's Thought for the Day....

"Sometimes you just have to stand there and hurt."
Ann R.

My mother often had wise sayings to impart, which always seemed most appropriate for the particular situation I or others were struggling to cope with.
In light of her passing, this particular one of hers seems to address where I am at the moment.

I often heard her counsel other women to take time to acknowledge the pain they were in.  If necessary, she would advise, set a timer for ten minutes and allow yourself to really feel the feelings that are rising up inside of you.  Then, get up and get on with your day.

The Englishman has been encouraging me to take the time to grieve for all the good about my mother that I will surely miss.  While I would like to take the Scarlett O"Hara route and "think about that tomorrow" I know he's right. Postponing it will not make it easier.

So I will both listen to the Englishman and heed my mother's words - take ten minutes each day to let the hurt flow through me - then move on through my day.  Getting back to writing for this blog is a good beginning.


*I will be eternally grateful for all the love and support I have received from family and friends these past ten days.  It means more than I can ever express.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Friday Fotos....

Here are a few things we've been working on lately....

Reading nook for the wee ones, tucked away in the upstairs hallway, outside the master bedroom.
The Englishman built the "house" cabinet for me many years ago.  I simply added the paint.

Sleeping Bassets.  Notice the new flag the Englishman got me?

Potting Shed with new coat of stain and new trim work around the door and windows, courtesy of the Englishman.
Clean sheets drying in the breeze.  Heaven to sleep on!

Lavender and pansies.  Pots were on sale at Rite Aid - group of 3 at 50% off.  Great deal, till I got them home and realized there were no drain holes. Englishman to the rescue!  With a fancy drill bit he was able to put in drain holes. Perfect!

Wishing everyone a lovely weekend - filled with sunshine and cool breezes!

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Thursday's Thought for the Day....

"....there are defining moments in one's life when you learn a lot about yourself, and you deposit that knowledge in the experience account, so you can draw on it at some later date."
"Giles" - a character in Best Kept Secret by Jeffrey Archer

This line reminded me of something I have frequently told my daughters over the years - "Nothing is wasted if you learn something from it."

Some days, I think that I have more than enough "experience" to draw upon, thank you very much.
Could we just coast along for a while?
But I can see there is still so much more to learn on this journey called "life."

The Englishman and I are huge fans of Jeffrey Archer's work.  The books below are the first three installments of what is a Chronicle of novels about two families.  


I highly recommend them, as well as his previous works. 
I also recommend keeping paper and pencil, or some sort of electronic device, handy while reading.  It affords you the opportunity to jot down quotes and thoughts that you want to remember while you are reading.  A helpful tool, since keeping a thought in my head for longer than two minutes seems a difficult achievement these days.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Wednesday's wisdom....

Spoilt for choice.....

Like many people, my level of stress seems to fluctuate greatly these days. In giving some thought as to why this might be, I've come to the conclusion that among the many possibilities for this is the vast number of choices one has available in our modern society.

Now when I was a kid (cue the moaning....) there were far fewer choices of individual items available in the stores.  Take sneakers.  You either bought Keds or P.F. Flyers.  Color choice? Red or white. The number of different sneakers available today is staggering.  Same thing with jeans. Levis or Lee's.   Color? Denim.  Simple, quick, one or the other.

These days even a trip to the supermarket can throw me into a real tailspin!  Dozens of choices for juice, coffee, teas, chocolates, and on and on and on.  Need white flour?  Simple, right?  Nope. There too, there are multiple brands to choose from.  

While I think it's wonderful that on the one hand the world is full of so many things to choose from, the sheer number of items can be overwhelming.  Solution?  I've decided to consciously limit the number of things I purchase, the number of stores I will visit, and the number of websites I will peruse. Simplify. Limit the choices. That's the answer for me.

As to the food shopping?  For the most part, that is the Englishman's domain.  He handles the bulk of our purchases, thankfully. I have to confess that as we slowly drove past a very busy Shop Rite the other day, allowing for countless shoppers to push their full carts across the road,  I pointed out the obvious:  if he were to drop me off for a shopping excursion, he would probably need to bring bail money with him when he picked me up.   

The Englishman smiled.  But he didn't disagree.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Tip for a Tuesday....

"Let the river run...."


A tip my Dad passed along to me many years ago recently came to mind.
When first turning on the water taps in your house each morning, let the water run for several minutes.
This will allow any sediment, or in the case of old pipes - lead, which has settled in the pipes over night flush out before you use the water.

Easy peasy.

* A footnote to yesterday's post about the "Angel Priest":
"Mystery solved. The “angel priest” who appeared at the scene of a Missouri car crash, anointed and prayed with the teenage victim, then vanished has been identified as Rev. Patrick Dowling of the Jefferson City Diocese."  
Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2013/08/12/mystery-solved-angel-priest-identified/?test=latestnews#ixzz2brvz0oqt


Monday, August 12, 2013

A Monday memory....

Have you heard this amazing story?  About a "mysterious priest" who showed up at an accident site?  It gave me chills.  Here is the story that appeared on Fox News website:

"Authorities in Missouri say they will file charges in a car crash last weekend that left a 19-year-old woman critically injured, and the world wondering about the identity of the "angel" priest who prayed with her until rescuers could free her from the mangled wreck -- and then disappeared.
Officials are still scratching their heads over the cleric, who appeared out of nowhere. Perhaps more mysteriously, the local fire chief said he does not appear in any of 80 photos from the accident scene.
Ralls County Prosecuting Attorney Rodney Rodenbaugh said he anticipates charges will be filed against Aaron Smith, 26, who crashed his car at 9 a.m. Sunday morning into an oncoming car driven by 19-year-old Katie Lentz of Quincy, Mo., KHQA reports.
Lentz remains at Blessing Hospital, where she was treated for multiple fractures and serious internal injuries.
The crash went global after reports of the mysterious priest who stepped forward when Lentz asked someone to pray with her while firefighters struggled to free her from the wreckage.
“The fire chief, Raymond Reed, had stepped back and came up to me and said he was concerned because he was out of options. His tools weren’t working and by that time, it was almost an hour and said I don’t know how we’re going to get her out,” Ralls County Sheriff’s Deputy Richard Adair told KHQA.
Then the priest appeared – although the highway was blocked for two to three miles and emergency responders were not letting anyone past the roadblocks.
“He came and he asked to anoint the girl in the car,” Adair said. “My first thought was that it would possibly send the wrong message to Katie that maybe we had called a priest and thought she wasn’t going to make it. So I went back and talked to the priest and told him we were worried she would think we’d given up hope. He said, ‘I just want to anoint her’and so we just let him come up to the scene.”
Witnesses said he anointed Katie and her rescuers with oil, prayed with them and asked them to remain calm.
At that point the Hannibal fire department pulled up with fresh equipment and was able to free Katie. After getting her in the Air Evac helicopter, rescue workers said the priest was nowhere to be found.
Fire Chief Reed said the department took 80 photos of the scene and the priest did not appear in any of them.
The Diocese of Jefferson City says it has not located the priest involved. “Out of respect for the privacy of any priest who may have been involved and does not wish to come forward, the Diocese does not plan to further investigate this incident. The Diocese is grateful that a priest was able to exercise his ministry in this manner and requests prayers for healing of the victim, as well as prayers of thanks.” said Deacon Dan Joyce."

Wow, huh?  I found this quote on the Catholic News Agency website:

“All along the way, her foremost request is for people to pray and to pray out loud,” Luntz' mother told KHQA. “We would like nothing more than to carry that message forward for her.”

I think it's a wonderful message to spread.

Many years ago, I had my own "angel" experience of sorts.  I had taken my then three young daughters to see the Ice Capades Show.  The seats turned out to be way up, literally in the top rafters of the building - something none of us were prepared for.  As we climbed the steep steps it quickly became clear the seats were far too high for us to enjoy the show.  Telling the girls we would need to go back down to the ticket office, I suddenly became aware that one of them was gripped with fear due to the steep height of the area.  I too have great difficulty with heights, but at that moment my fear was not of the heights, but that I wouldn't be able to help my daughter move from the spot she was now attached to.  I managed to convince her to slide down the steps on her bottom and the four of us slowly inched our way towards the back wall.  

Looking around for the nearest exist, I spotted a tall older gentleman coming towards us.  He reached out his hand to me and asked, "Could you use some assistance?"  Boy, could I! I wanted to hug him!  He instructed us to follow him, that there was an elevator ahead.  He gently guided us along the wall, assisting each of the girls and then stayed with us until the elevator doors opened.  He told me what floor to get off, what ticket window to look for and said, "You'll be alright now."

And we were.  In following his directions ,we were able to exchange our tickets, and with a bit more money, found ourselves sitting on floor seats quite close to the ice.  It turned out to be a wonderful show.

Did I mention that the elevator operator looked quizzically at the gentleman when he told her how to assist us, as if she didn't know where he had come from?  I didn't care where he had come from. Whoever he was, he truly was a rescuing angel for me and I will forever be grateful that he "appeared" that day.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Thursday's Thought for the Day....

With all the bad news I've been hearing about lately, I needed to be reminded that there are far more good things happening in this world that don't receive nearly as much attention as they should.  Here are just a couple of items I found, through Pinterest.  
God bless these people - they both inspire and give me hope!

This story is from April of 2008:


This was posted on this woman's Facebook page, October 25, 2012:




This race took place on December 2, 2012:



This article was posted in May, 2013.  Officer Briggs met Kevin Berthia in 2005:

Wow.  Just, wow. 
Brought tears to my eyes.
You can "google" the names of the individuals listed for the original articles.
Worth reading, I assure you.
Such good people out there!!

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Thursday's Thought for the Day....

"Hope begins in the dark, 
the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come.  
You wait and watch and work;
you don't give up."
~ Anne Lamott


I came across this quote in book I received from a friend, titled: believe
A reminder to simply do the next right thing.
Easy to remember, sometimes hard to do.

Most important is to never give up hope.